I mean, its sorta like how people think that marriage ruins a relationship. If you can be living with the person you love, living each day as it comes, no strings attached, then why is that such a big deal. Marriage, just leaves room for divorce. Me ? I wanna get married. The whole wedding aspect isn't like a massive deal for me. Think of all the people secretly wanting your marriage to fail, so why shout them a meal, and let them have all the fun they want at your open bar.
And what about love itself. When did it become the norm, to search a search for a person, that you make yourself love, before you actually feel the feeling. People are so quick to say that they love someone, and why ? No, really, why. So he fits, the requirements that you have. He's tall, got dark hair, and he makes you laugh, and your friend says he treats girls really nicely. Hmm, righto then, why isn't he already taken. Isn't it a tad naive to think that he was predestined for you. Though love is a beautiful thing, theres so much pain that comes with it. With love there is compromise, love makes you act foolish, love leads to eventual cheating, which then leads to heartbreak, and then you have to start the cycle all over again.
Love is an all 'round painful emotion, that makes you want to rip your heart out, and never have to deal with it again. It makes you want to scream in frustration, cry in agony, jump for joy, and skip around wistfully when it all goes smoothly, but alltogether makes you want to die, right then and there when it all goes wrong. So why put yourself through it ?
Because if you can somehow overcome the hurdles that love brings, then you've got something incredible.